Plural Etiquette Questionnaire

Work in progress, but for now

What do you go by collectively? (a system name, a shared username, group pronouns... etc)

The City of Dead Leaves. There's a few main members that front the most often that are known as The Court of Dead Leaves, specifically. The City goes by many names, but that's the main one.

How should people refer to you? (should people address individual members whenever possible, or would you rather be referred to collectively, etc) Most of the time, just address individual members whenever possible, especially because I'm mainly the one in front for 90% of the time. If you're referring to us collectively, the term you use is Cityfolk, the City of Dead Leaves or just "Dead Leaves", example: "Yeah, look at those Cityfolk of Dead Leaves just vibing". / "Dead Leaves is cool as fuck" In a system context, I am primarily referred to as Volta or the Scarlet Regent. If you see Cityfolk using those names for me, that's because those are my official titles in the City and just generally what most of them are accustomed to calling me. What terms do you prefer for referring to yourselves as individuals (headmate/alter/system member/...), or as a group (system/collective/household/...)? Is there any other terminology for yourselves or aspects of your experience that you use and want people to know, or that you dislike and want people to avoid when talking about you? Individually: Headmate, system member, spirit, person/individual, fictive, soulbond. Group: system, plural, collective, City, community do not use alter, median, facet, part, or pseudomemories for us. do not. just really try not to imply our experiences aren’t real/are fictional Who in your system are people most likely to interact with? (names, pronouns, short Twitter-esque bios, etc) pendulous — 04/22/2022 2:46 AM See here. Will people be interacting with any child members? How should they treat them? Is there anything they should know when interacting with them? You all will not be interacting with any child members. It's nothin too big, it's just that most of them don't have Tuppers and also they're super personal in nature. Especially N, M, and H, three specific ones who are basically my kids.